Reading: Daredevil: Yellow
Listening: A Perfect Circle, which is conveniently stuck in my head.

Good grief.

I thought such childish bickering was regaled to the playground.

It appears, that in any online conflict, at least one (who am I kidding? Just one?) person will fall back upon tired cliches and stereotypes - "All Singaporeans are brainwashed by their government" ; " All Malaysians are uncouth" etc. , etc. , etc.

I am referring, to the furor generated over a certain "XiaXue" (Rather vulgar sometimes, IMO, but an interesting experiment). More specifically, a post on said girl's blog on a recent trip to KL, Malaysia.

Just my humble two-cents ( Hell, I don't even know if I'll publish this)~

It seems to me several angry comments came from people who had not read the post thoroughly - and I'm not just referring to "XiaXue"s post, but other blogs which responded. Most, very simply, took the post(s) as personal insults and/or an excuse (apologies, not excuse, blight) to go up in arms (we all get bored from time to time, ne?). Most of the comments smacked of not thinking. Brainless, fueled by overrated emotions.

Perhaps, (but I wade too deep) using this to re-direct fustration at something else; an outlet. What better place than the internet, where anonymity protects you?

Secondly, "XiaXue" should have expected the backlash - and I believe she did - and, perhaps gone about complaining about her holiday a different way. Yes, it is her blog and she is free to do what she wants, its a free country and all that.
Democracy, freedom of speech - all useless unless tempered with sense. Although they champion the rights of the individual, a society cannot function if one follows these ideals rigidly. One must, must take into account the others - they and one are the society.

Anyway, in a girl such as "XiaXue" (of exceeding sense) one cannot help but wonder if the backlash was, for lack of a better word, welcomed. I tread on delicate ground here - after all, "XiaXue" has been proven to revel in attention, good and bad (though, in this case, it might have been too extreme - the comments). Another piece of evidence is her tendency to devote postings to rebut comments - if she truly did not care, was sure that she made herself clear in the original post, would she do so? All of us care about how others percive us, it is a trait very few of us can shrug off.

Another note- the language used was (I do apologise, and I know some will use the wearing-a-short-skirt-in-Geylang-but-molesting-is-still-a-crime argument. The two are different, friends, despite the disclaimer in that post. Or the two might be parallels but - another day) already dangerously provoking. Calling the city names. Good grief.

But some of the comments weren't any better. Name-calling, and out came the Barney Bag of old, tired, insults. But it will never end, even as new postings replace current ones, and new issues take over.

I was born in Singapore. I spent the best bit of my childhood in Malaysia. My father is Singaporean, my mother hails from Malaysia. I have older brothers and sisters born and bred from both sides of the causeway.

I dream of both.

Good grief. Emotion : There are more important things to worry about, people. Like new Orleans. Or South Africa. Or people suffering in your own backyard, whom anyone can help. ANYONE.

Rationale: Oh, Missy, you won't change a thing. Let the people swearing and calling each other names play. Stupid girl, there are more important things to worry about.